hi all.  my first time posting here..... i need help.  my father chose to take his own life on my birthday just over 2 weeks ago.  he was a very tormented man and i don't believe he knew what day it was.  my problem ... is since this has happened i have attempted to contact him and i am very distraught now knowing he is wandering around in this darkness not knowing what has happened.  i am not new esp.  but very new to anything to do with the afterlife.  is there anything i can do to help my father? i don't know where else to ask....
Quinn

Hello Quinn

This what has happened is quite a burden for you and you must be feeling rather run down and abused.
There is a great amount of love from Angels for you to reach out too and ask for help for your Spirit to be strong in carrying on with your life.  Spiritual love will hold your hand and comfort you in this time and forever.  This is a silent commune within your heart; never doubt the love is not there.  Together with friends, you will find a strong pillar of strength to make you realise this is not your doing but your late father's.  Who at this time; needs all your love, compassion and forgiveness.  Think of him with all your love Quinn, this is the most important thing you can do right now.  Even though, it might be hard for you right now, it will make you strong in years to come.

It might be too soon to try make contact with him. He is with the Angels on his side who are holding his hand and helping him heal, he needs time to do this.   In a few years peace will descend into your heart.

May you and your father both be loved and supported by God's workers who care very deeply.

Hello Quinn:

Light beings know what's going on for your dad. Not a soul is unaccounted for. They'll do whatever they can to help him. It is up to him to accept their help.

You can send him some love and urge him to accept whatever divine help is offered to him. There's a good chance that in some way he'll hear you.

Hi Quinn,

if it is an image you have in mind which sticks with you, "knowing he is wandering around in this darkness not knowing what has happened", I suggest you think of this image, and think yourself into it, imagine you give your father company, walk with him, talk with him. It's not important to tell him "where" he is exactly, but that he is with you, then show him you care, your love and that it's all good. You then can imagine to move with him to a lovely place.

If you feel the urge to do something, try it. There is this theory that this kind of imagination is a far stronger way to communicate with those passed over than just with words. It's maybe, in this kind of imaginations, not everything one to one objectively true, but it's a way to transport feelings, to accompany someone.

Spooky

Thank you 3 for taking the time to post for me.  I appreciate the good words and am keeping strong.  Dad is ok.  and I will be as well.  Time heals.
 Quinn

Hi Quinn, the others are right. helpers are aplenty on the other side. you can assist by learning the art of retrieval which is not as hard as it may sound.
u might try it this way: think about the one thing your father may have longed for in this world and see him receiving it. this works in the creative state to be sending love, an energy which can expand his mind into a more comforting realm; that is if he is stuck. no one would be able here to say he is stuck. and you said he's ok. wanted you to know all our messages we think up on this side are saved to be delivered at the right time to those whom they are directed..by these helpers.
also sometimes they are really busy for weeks or months..its a bit of a shock when you first cross over in a confused state.
so like the others say love energy helps, as much as you can muster up. its hard when they check out like this, without even saying goodbye. had that experience once. if I was you, which I'm not, but I'd say, ok, I'm here dad, ready whenever you are. I'm open if you want to come to me. then you might have a dream where he comes. pay attention to the details as this is how they can get thru most often as your waking mind is asleep and not interfering in spirit to spirit communication.

letting him know in your mind you are ready when he is, will certainly be delivered to him. love, alysia