hi new to this just wanted to share my dream, my sons father died in June and things were very bad between my son, i and the rest of his family to the point we couldnt go to his funeral i was very upset as his other partner who had his other2 children took precedence in her grief than my son or i,  about 2 weeks after his death i had this dream
I was in Scotland (i currently live in England) and my mum told me Kevin was in hospital and about to die so my son and i rushed to the hospital to find Alison and her 2 children next to his bedside Kevin was still and deathlike, me and my son hid behind a curtain as we didnt want her to know we were there, there was a huge curtain we hid behind and the nurses couldnt understand why we were hiding anyway a short time later for some reason the curtain opened and kevin kind of split into 2 kevins one lying still on the bed and the other kevin coming towards us with a huge grin on his face and telling me he loved us and he was well and restored and whole again, thats all i can remember of the dream and i woke up feeling so happy yet weeping uncontrollobly, would appreciate a comeback with what this dream meant, was it a message from him we were important to him no matter what others thought or to ease my grief and hoping it was a message from him, any help would be appreciated on this thanks for taking time to read Ellie x

Hi Ellie
welcome to the forum!
my feeling is that it is a message from kevin and he is Ok, so sorry to hear how difficult this has been for you and your son, but I think you could safely say that the message you have been given is how things are now with him! Was he ill before he passed over?
I'm sure others will share their ideas
love Cathy

hi cathy and thanks for your input, Kevin had been suffering alcohol and drug abuse and had hepatitus c before he died and he had come back to me and my son in January and i had to make him go back to Scotland end of April because i couldnt handle him as he was and for my sons sake really, i have felt pure guilt as i feel i sent him to his death in a way so the dream seemed to be of comfort to me when i needed it i guess, i have had other dreams with him in but none like this i just want him to be ok wherever he is and all his demons in life have gone Ellie xx

Greetings Ellie,
Glad you came here!
Your Kevin's behaviour in the dream/vision was much more loving than anything you hinted at in his recent life, much more like true spirit. So once he was freed of his mortal sufferings, he was able to be the true soul you shared love with. Trust your senstivity to his message. Have you shared this with your son?  Hope so!
You can also read thru others' similiar experiences here on these topics to help you.
Much love to you and your son,
bets

hey betson
thank you your thoughts on my dream what you said has made me cry with relief more than anything, i can't talk to my son about his dad as he wont discuss him at all he's 8 and just clams up when i try to talk to him about his dad, but to be aware this was a sign of his love rather than my wishful thinking means so much to me thank you
Ellie xx

Hi Ellie, much love to you and your son and Kevin.
My thoughts on your dream are;

Hiding behind the curtain and then having the curtain open to reveal Kevin, is quite a lovely symbol to show you are looking into the spirit world.  And in the spirit world Kevin spoke to you, through you, to tell you he is fine, restored and happy.  Through you, he placed the images you saw and spoke to say he understands why you felt the need to hide behind the curtain and just as there is two meanings of the curtain so there is two meanings of his body being split, this is his love and he wants you to know this so he can loosen your grief that he feels and replace it with love.

So wonderful it is is be able to receive a message like this.  And because you woke up feeling happy but also crying shows a release happened. Be happy when you think of him, smile, laugh and send him lots of love and he will return this love as a comfortable, looked after feeling within you and your son.

PUL
caryn

oh caryn
thank you, your take on my dream was beautiful i can't help weeping reading what all of you are telling me i feel so much better i have so much grief and regret inside me, reading all these wonderful meanings to my dream is giving me peace and the will to move on and smile at the memories rather than cry thank you so much for taking time to reply to my post you are all helping me understand much better, i have had people who have died visit me in dreams before but i loved Kevin so much i can't accept the fact he is gone without knowing he is in a better place and you are all helping me come to terms with this (silly fool that i am) but thank you from my heart xxx

There are no dreams that are 'just dreams.'  This was a real contact with him to tell you he is OK. You need to release your guilt. You did the only thing you could do. Perhaps you did with this dream. Our dreams help us so much (if only I could remember mine). LOL  

Love, Mairlyn

thank you mairlyn i feel blessed now to have had this dream knowing he was reaching out to me letting me know he was ok, i don't think the guilt will ever leave but i also know only the person with the problem have to help themselves we cannot do it for them i thank you so much for your kindness and your response i'm feeling in a strange way it's healing me somewhat, and i'm grateful to each and everyone who has and will respond to my question
love Ellie xx

You CAN release the guilt but you have to want to.  So many people go around with guilt dragging them down and it's not necessary. You need to release it for your own healing. Forgive yourself, feel love and gratitude.

With Love, Marilyn