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make the intention to become conscious in the dream next time you dream of her.  she is around you all the time, waiting to speak to you in this way.

Greetings xanadu,
   My condolences regarding the passing of your mother. It's a hard loss, I know.
  If you dream of her and can make yourself enter the dream with a question for her, you can soon be having meaningful conversations with her, but perhaps after mourning has eased.  If you are too tired to rouse yourself, it's worth getting more sleep for this experience.
  Plan your question ahead of time and tell yourself 'I intend to ask my mother----.' It's not hard but it can be exciting so be prepared.
  If you want to be even more prepared, get ahold of Bruce Moen's Afterlife Knowledge Guidebook, and take the whole course.  then you'll be ready for alot of spiritual experiences.
Your grief will ease.
bets

How long has it been?  After my father passed, it was 6 months..and then we seemed to encounter him everywhere.  That was in 1980, and its been quite a while since I've "heard" anything from him, often wondering if he's already returned to physical life.

My mother crossed in 1991..she seemed to be around almost immediately..like she couldn't wait to make her presence known.

Check out the links up top and Bruce's books..it will help you with being able to communicate with her..