My friends died in car accident, on March 5, 2006. I miss them so much, and I would love to that somebody send them this message and ask them how they are.

I hope that somebody help me, or can explain me what to do

Hi irina_81

May you have the strength to cope with your friends pass over into the Spiritual world.

Death does sting for the people left behind and for this may I offer you all the love and comfort that you need to understand why.

We need to know that the moment of death is the most glorious event for the Soul.  If we could see 'on the other side' we would behold a sight beyond our normal senses - the rejoicing, the colours, the music, the angels ready to take the hands of your friends, the family members who have gone before are there ready for re-uniting.

Therefore, although it is difficult to do, we should rejoice at peoples passing over as the opposite of when one is born for being born into matter is quite sorrowful.

The time was right for your friends to go and a majority of souls do choose car accidents to depart.  This is not an Universe of 'chaos' it is a well planned Universe and be rest assured that the time was right.

The right thing to do now is to send them all your loving thoughts and remember the times that you had to together.  This may be a three day period  of candle lighting and deep thoughts of your friends after this your loving thoughts throughout the day sent to them will be appreciated by them.

For the departed souls take strength from our loving remembrance of them and they can be restful that they know you understand it was their time to go.

They will have a 'settling in' period and a period of 're-conciliation' of their recently past life.  Therefore loving thoughts will suffice for now until they are ready to contact you, if this is desired, often it is not.  I say it is better not to force contact as your friends are 'flying high' now and earthly contact will bring them down. Unless they so desire then you will know through a still voice inside, be calm and strong. But most of all be happy for them and free yourself from grief.  :) You will be re-united with them when it is your turn to go home.

Our thoughts are amazing things, they do travel
and go were they are meant to go.  This is the most loving thing that you can do for your friends.

I say this to you and your friends with my deepest respect; it is a matter that I do not take lightly and send you love.

Hi Irina-
I regret your loss. I agree, it was time, for reasons that may not be clear for a long time, if ever.

Bruce's book Five - Home Study Course tells how to get in touch with spirits. Reading a couple of his other books first might help.

When I do past life regressions, I often stop, while the  client calls out for friends and loved ones to come and talk etc. However, simple meditation or a relatively light hypnotic trance (same thing) is all that's needed. If you are not familiar with meditation, a local hypnotist might help you learn to go into trance, after which you can do it yourself.

I suggest that before you go into trance to ask them to return, you send love and tell them that you accept their choice to leave the world and are not angry - sometimes this helps smooth the path for both sides.

dave

Irina:

Sorry for your loss.

I agree with what Augoeideian wrote.

You're friends will be fine, and so will you.

my condolences to you. i also agree with what augoeideian said- you will see your friends again. I don't know much about this sort of thing, but here is a page that might help you communicate with your friends, if you feel up to it. it probably takes a lot of practice to do it, but good luck. http://www.near-death.com/experiences/paranormal10.html

sorry for your loss. god bless.

I just want to say thank you for your words.
I am miss them  , but I believe their in the better place , and One day I will see them. :(
Again thanks.

Hey Irina,

Im sorry to hear off your loss,

I for one definatly kown what your going through, i lost my step cousin in a car accident and things for me turned for a real worse. I suffered depression los of over things which i wont go into, please do talk though however bad you feel, or even PM me, i want to be here for you in these bad times.

I got through it, just, (still go through it ocansionally) and still am, but please dont feel grieving is a bad thing, it is the best emotion you can go through at this period, but remember the good times but also remember there is something after this life and they they are enjoying it now, although its hard.

When i say greiving though, its not all bad greiving is feeling the bad and feeling the good, thats what  i remember and many nights i layed there in secret crying in joy that he was such a wonerful person and that im sure the same way you feel about your friends.

i couldnt rele talk on here, or talk to anyone, but people helped me here ( you know who you are, thankyou) and i am still thankfull and hope one day i can pay back this gratitude and love i felt. Even though i couldnt say hardly everything i cried knowing that people actually cared (it was hard to at home for reasons).  I dont feel your in this situation though, so bascially please dont feel afraid to cry, to feel down but please know over this hill there is a good side and life will continue, for you as well as them, even if your not sure of this yet.

I wish you all the support to get through these times and would love to hear of you if you want to talk.

Ryan

If it's any comfort to you, I recently assisted someone who passed in a car accident, a young woman. She seemed quite all right to me. She knew she was dead, answered my questions put to her. She came to me because she recognized me (my energy) from a previous life. She wasn't freaked out or anything and understood what was going on just fine. Wasn't scared or anything.

Rob