Dear all,

I'm new to this forum and I am currently very very sad, you could say desperate.

My Dad passed away a few days ago and I have a very hard time understanding where he is now.

I read some of the articles on the web about afterlife but I do not know where to start.

Is there a way to contact him in any way. How ?
Any help is highly appreciated. I do not have anymore tears to cry. I am desperate to comunicate with him ......

Please help me ....

hyperion

PS: I hope that I do not sound completely crazy ...

Hi Hyperion,

Welcome to this forum. First let me express my condolences. Then let me direct you to the top of the page. Click on Necessary Skills/Resources and read. This should help you to get started. Also look for him in dreams as this is the most common ways that they contact us.

Love, Mairlyn ;-)

Hyperion,

I'd suggest that you begin with reading step-by-step approaches to the mastery of astral projection.  Bruce Moen's latest book, "Afterlife Knowledge Guidebook: A Manual for the Art of Retrieval and Afterlife Exploration" might be as good a place as any to start.   It puts in print the exercises of his how-to course and can be purchased with CDs.  Bruce does not stress Out-of-Body Experiences (OBEs), but rather Focused Imagination.  If you experiment with his techniques, you will quickly sense whether this sort of approach is right for you. If you'd prefer to explore via OBEs, you might try the step-by-step approach of Robert Bruce and Brian Mercer's "Practicing Astral Projection."

If you are not ready for astral exploration, then at least recognize ways your Dad might communicate with you from beyond the grave: e. g. in psychic dreams, an overwhelming sense pf presence, a sense of touch from an unseen hand, characteristic odors (e. g. pipe tobacco or a cologne), or the paranormal movement of objects in such a way that might signal his presence.   For example, I had a female student whose Dad recently died.  His high school yearbook in her attic had been thrown to the floor by an unseen hand and was open at his picture.  No one had ascended to the attic since his death.  Remember, almost half of mourners report some sort of contact with their deceased loved one within the first year of his passing.


Beyond this, you might share your questions and your family's prior beliefs (religious or otherwise) about the afterlife on this site, so that posters can respond to your issues in a more relevant way.

Best wishes,
Don

Hi there welcome to the board - I'm new here as well. Sorry to hear about your dad passing. My dad passed in 93 and it took many years before he visited me in a dream so I just wanted to say it may take some time.

wrote on Feb 8^th, 2006 at 8:43pm:

Dear all, I'm new to this forum and I am currently very very sad, you could say desperate. My Dad passed away a few days ago and I have a very hard time understanding where he is now. I read some of the articles on the web about afterlife but I do not know where to start. Is there a way to contact him in any way. How ? Any help is highly appreciated. I do not have anymore tears to cry. I am desperate to comunicate with him ......

Hi hyperion and welcome to the website.

I'm sorry to hear about your dad crossing over. You can pray to God before going to sleep for you to meet with your dad in the spirit/astral world. If it happens and God let's it happen, you will know it: the details will be unforgettable and amazing, just as conscious and real as physical life.


Learn more about going out-of-body and the spirit world here:

www.jonasridgeway.com/tech2.html

www.spiritual.com.au/astral.html

www.astralweb.org

www.astralvoyage.com/projection/index.html

http://home.iprimus.com.au/terencem/thisisabbisquestionpage.htm


Just know that you're dad is happy in the spirit world with God and with the millions of other spirits now. I assure you will see him and be with him again.

I promise. :) ;)

Hyperion,

I am so sorry to hear about your dad.  I'm glad you thought about coming here to look for some answers because you will find lots of people who understand and who will offer friendship and advice.  

What I suggest is that you make time where you can be alone in a quiet setting and just think about your dad, remembering what he felt like and thinking about loving memories.  Do this until you actually feel him with you.  It is my belief that anyone can do this.  And what it does is allow you to reach him and allows you to accept him trying to reach you.  It opens up spiritual communication.  To me, that is a definite sign of contact or confirmation, when you can feel someone's energy.  

Love, Vicky

:)

hi hiperion i,m so sorry to hear about your lovely dad  has died i know how you feel my dad died 2001 and he has visited me in my dreams but i know he is in heaven now a beautiful place and thats where your dad is i,ve had different mediums come through with messages from my dad and the messages were very accurate and he told me he was happy where he was now is there a spiritualist church near you it helped me so much when i lost dad  god bless hiperion love deanna

Thank you all for the good words and thoughts.

My search (quest) for afterlife knowledge has begun.....

Hi Hyperion,
maybe what could hinder to try the imagination method to contact a deceased is that somehow we may feel embarrassed about it. Maybe we think this is forbidden, or crazy. But isn't it just an expression of how much we love and care, and we don't need to be embarrassed about that I think. So, why not try it, there's nothing to lose but much to receive.
Spooky