Is it normal or "permitted" for dead relatives to spy on me in my private life?  I hate the thought of Uncle Louie watching me do the wild thing, or even worse... dear departed grandma!  And I'm not just talking about Focus 23 ghosts - I'm even concerned by the odd Focus 25 or 27 busybody watching me in their orb (or whatever).  Is there a right to privacy that's enforced by some angelic ACLU, or is it a cosmic free-for-all-x-rated-astral-television channel?  If that's the case maybe I'll really put on a show.
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Eh, just tell them to sod off every once and a while. Might scare them so badly that they'll pay more attention to your privacy.

HI Q-

It is both normal and permitted for all ther dead to "spy" on the living. More than that they very often intermingle their personalities with the living in order to vicariously have the experiences associated with embpdiment while not having a body.

Once in a while one of them also gets "stuck" and becomes an "attached entity".

The flip side is that it is your body's ability to cling to one or more ideas while working on another, that gives you the ability to "multi-task" by handling more than a single concept in a single instant. As a spook, you become single minded.

A good example of a single minded being is a dog.
100% love, but life only here and now, in the instant, not worried about yesterday (in general) and not looking for any specific tomorrow (in general). (Some animals are actually very psychic etc as well, of course.)

Thus, Uncle Willy is only going to be interested in watching you wash your navel in the bath if he was a navel fetishist in life, and then only if this was an unfulfilled desire. In that case, he faces a world of endless navels in which to inspect the lint, and the incapacity to stop. A typical equivalent might be the person who edits pornographic movies until he or she is so fed up that the sight of clothing becomes a turn-on.

What the Uncle Willy types need is love and permission to live in your world just as they are; acceptance, because they have great potentiality to do good in the world; and prayer that they might be released from their baser emotions so that their higher abilities might develop.

Spirits respond poorly to either demands or threats because they tend to sever communications to protect themselves. Conversely, love allows the one-track-mindedness to be redirected toward doing better next time, and they can proceed onward to a better future life. Acceptance without demands to either stay or go also prevents emotional entanglements of the sort that create attachment.

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