I have been going crazy! I hardly sleep when i say hardly i have two 4hrs of sleep because im up thinking of tim, and when i do sleep i wake up really really sweaty? every time i dream of him he seems to be trying to get away from me?!? i keep trying to tell him i love him and miss him but he seems angry at me and doesnt want to hear what i have to say? im really confused because i know he would never do this?? any advice would help

I'm not sure why this is. But I'm sure there's an explanation. I had something similiar happen to me in a dream recently. Odd...

Hi Lydia,
I hope by now these bad dreams have stopped and you are getting some sleep.
A friend of mine experienced similiar contact with a recently deceased love one. She got help that told her that the time of affirming her love was passing, and she needed to lovingly tell him she let him go on. She had to cut him loose, for both their sakes.  The bonds of love are real bonds and will make you both sick if stretched too far through the spiritual world.
He's being told to move into phases of examination needed for his soul's development but he can't do it tied to you. If you love him let him move on. You'll see him again later--that's what it's all about, right?

Hey Lydia,

The first impression that came to me from your post is Tim isn't mad at you, completely the opposite, hes acting like this because he needs to do things now as well as you and grieving is hindering the progress. I know you just can't stop grieving like that but for both of you and specially you with needing more sleep (I know what thats like) its time to try and work on how to go forward. Once we can do this  we can move forwards, but not on, he will always be there for you, he just has his learning to do as well. Its all a learning experience for everyone. He would hate to see you like this, I think this is his way to try and help you through this.

Ryan

P.S: I think this came out completly wrong so I'm sorry but hope it helps.