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Dear all,   I thought about closing my account after my last message, but really, after closing my account the only thing I would do is come back BECAUSE I refuse to run away from my responsibility and I want to solve whatever problem is mine.   I titled "wishing to make a big mistake" basically because I knew it was a mistake and I hoped most of you would realize that I did not necessarily thought everything I said. Anyway, I wish to apologies to those of you whose feelings I have hurt and if you think I should leave this board, I might agree with you at some level at this point. I feel bad, because I realize I made many of you feel bad and somehow, I did not think it would be go this far. I consequently removed the topic, also because I am really ashamed and embarrassed to have caused you such great harm, seemingly. I am sorry to tell you, that this was the general thought most of people around me live in. So, in stead of "spitting at you all", like expressed, I am could chose to explain you what I see, if you still feel like listening. Therefore I ask you, after my last topic, do you still feel like listening to me? I also wish to state, that I do not plan to recommence such thing.

My honest perception is that you are just looking for attention because you lack self love.  I do not believe this is something for us to get mad about, but i wish for your own happiness that you understood the principle of Like attracts Like, and that no amount of attention from others, or any outside circumstance is going to make you happy within yourself.

 As i learned through personal experience, you must give of yourself to others, think less of self, and often balance your body, before you can really start to feel some measure of wholeness within.

 Nothing but your giving Love to others and appreciating all the things "good" and "bad" that have happened in your life, will fill up that void.

 We all need to seek guidance within.  Yet, some here have given you really good advice...but the questions is, will you listen to any of it?  Are you truly apolizing?

 Continue to post if you want or not, either way it will not bother me.

With Love

Yes, i believe you and everyone should accept ourselves for who we are, but the catch 22 is that until you give out love to others, and sometimes that means shutting ones mouth and opening the Heart, then you will never truly accept and be happy with yourself...

 I know it sounds like a contradiction, but how bout just being quiet and trying to live for awhile...  You may say, "how do you know i don't, etc. etc.?"

 I will say, because you are still looking for attention so much outside of yourself, see?  This is what we might call a plain indication of universal law being applied.

 I'm probably not going to address you anymore, not cause i think you aren't worth it, but sometimes the child must be left alone to cry to develop strength within self.  I wish you well on your dualistic journey to wholeness and PUL.

 You sound very much like a Gemini with a strong Aries influence?

With Love

WF I must be sincere...

I can’t explain why but I feel you so shallow and empty. You talked that we didn’t mind about your problems but I confess I couldn’t understand what where them. You spoke a lot but you sincerely didn’t say anything for real. Some time I feel like if the “problens” you mentioned wasn’t “that important” even to you. I feel you are trying to do something fake that I can’t understand.  

It make me feel bad because if I’m wrong I’m losing a chance of helping somebody. So I hope that the time you is taking from us has a real PAIN underneath.


On purpose as an imperfect huma being I only give love to the ones a like, about the others I’m just trying to to my best. (it doesn’t mean I love them)

White Feather,

I have answered your personal message but I will briefly ask you in duplicate here on this thread to get some personal counseling in your community.  I think that your issues are too complex and time consuming for this type of forum.  I neglected to make this suggestion in my last post to you here on the forum.

It is unfortunate that so much negativity has been generated but I do not blame you.  I don't believe you are doing this on purpose, but that it is a kind of obsession for you and some counseling of a kind that is not available here is really what you might need.

That is all I will say on the matter so no response is necessary.

in peace, blink

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What is more important : being honest or being kind?

One is not more important than the other. One can be honest and kind at the same time.  Now I know that you have enough sense to realize this WF.

You have all the answers to all that you have asked inside of you. When will you ever go within instead of bombarding this board with questions you can answer yourself. I really can't tell anymore if you are sincere or if you're just playing with us. Is this a game to you?  

Enough said.

Love, Mairlyn

Hear, hear, Marilyn. Very well said yet again.

You have a very wise head indeed upon your shoulders and I consider you to be one of the best contributors to this board at present.

Let`s just hope postings can improve.

roger :)

Thank you Roger and AMEN!!!

Love, Mairlyn ;-)

WF,

You may or may not have tried this, but why don't you print out all your contributions to the board, say maybe when you get to 150 and sit down and read them as if you were reading someone elses auto-bio and then see what advice you would give that dear soul? Just a suggestion.

Damla,

Why are you keeping this thread going-Maybe you and WF are sisters ???? Just a thought.

Love to you both-funny guys ::) ;D

Love, Jean :-*