Well...that's what it means to be human. Humanity, life, is complex. The entire process of living, I think, is in order to learn the answers to the questions you're asking.

I guess, when I'm very confused to the point where I can't function, I like to take a bit of a retreat into nature. There's a ravine near my house I like to go take a walk through, either alone or with one friend.

Simple let it go. If you really trust God you may not be afraid.  go ahead live our life. if it's right or not the results of your acts will show it better than your thoughts before acting.

(to thing about it is not the same as to live it)

withe feather,

The live is it self meaning.  just live your life be really you the way you are, do what you feel. react the way you really want to. You must discover the real WF behind the one covered by the rules you learnt along your live. Then you can take another step.

The ones around us are sharing our experience as we are sharing their. ( they're not so close by coincidence)

You can't be responsible by the reaction of the others, only by your acts. So once you decide you can cope the outcome of your actions then you go ahed and do it.

The rule is simple: You are free to plant whatever you want to but you will have to feed your self with the harvest.

So if you are paralised simple ACT.

Being indeed specific

"...How do get clarity, when you are confused?..."

Growing up. getting experinece. Taking your own decisions.

wrote on Oct 26^th, 2005 at 7:00am:

Kardec, could you be more specific and clear. WF

It's possible that English isn't his first language.

What he's trying to say, I think, is that in order to get clarity you have to grow more and experience life, as well as making your own choices instead of being afraid to make the wrong decisions all the time.

He's also saying that as long as you're willing to reap what you sow, any action is the right one. Just act with love.

bingo!!  (is it English?)

White,

Your thoughts come out very stressed, it's like you're killing yourself over something you're not even sure about. I'm not the one to give you advice or anything because 1) im not a professional and 2) i dont know you.. but.. i think you should try to relax a little, and START ENJOYING life, the colors, smell the flowers. it may sound naive but thats how it all starts. i think you worry too much about things you don't know,and have all sorts of negative thoughts about "what might happen" and that's probably what builds the stressful situations that you go through.

Learn to communicate with your guide(s) or find someone who can and test him or her, then you will start to understand quite a bit. Your lessons in life, though, will proceed regardless.

Bob