Hi

I have been interested in the afterlife and studied it for as long as I can remember. Over the years I have come to understand that if you need any guidance it is a good idea to ask your guides!

I have never met my Guides but I always talk to them and ask them to try and Guide me to work with Spirit. As up till now NOTHING!!

While I was at Sweden at Colin Fry's College ( British Medium ) a Medium helped me into linking in with Spirit, I gave the most amazing reading to one Lady,the evidence I gave her was so amazing to her and and myself, at the end of the reading I got the biggest applause not once But Twice........The medium who helped me couldn't believe I had never connected with the Spirit world before,I was so pleased with myself!!

I have tried and tried to get into some kind of Circle for Development and pleaded with my guides to help me,I am starting to give up now because it is wearing me out! Do they not listen to me or is it because they can't help? I have been told on many occasions from Genuine Mediums that I have the ability to do this because of the Strong Energy they feel off me and the colours in my aura are very Spiritual.

Any comments are most welcome!

:)

Mediums/psychics tell everyone who goes to see them "they have the gift of spirit", they could be psychic.

Would'nt believe it though, they usually dont have any gifts themselves.

From what I've been told by dream messages and it's only personal, but might be shared here to further your own development, is that the guides purposefully remain anonomous, faceless, or nameless so you can basically get the idea how you create your own reality here. none, well, not none, but generally speaking to learn we are self creators, even building our own self images, and our characters, is not in general a popular concept...as then we would have to accept responsibility that we don't feel very good, etc etc. we like to blame circumstances for our troubles. not speaking about you personally here, just trying to give you an idea, these guides or consciousness workers out there, who are also "in here" are having an overview of yourself, and myself of course, and operating from that, in terms of what you may conceive you wish them to supply to you. I found too many times in asking for help from them, it would not be correct, my expectation to receive guidance for a certain outcome, as I never knew what was best for all concerned, but they did. so then I gave up that I knew anything (again, just talking about guides and me) I was reduced to a spiritual state...where I would say, alright, then 'what do you want me to say? what do u want me to do? where do you want me to go? I do not know. that is the moment that guides or guidance or higher wisdom steps in, when the ego steps out. the ego is a normal contraption to get around in, but guidance appears to be a most swifter conveyance to getting to the state of consciousness where we know we are in the right place at all times. but you are in the right place also! love, alysia

Hi goldyflocks,
Bruce says in his recent book, people are very different in sensing helpers. Some say they see persons and hear them talking, and others "see" things or symbols or nothing but intuition.
(There are also threads here on this site about helpers and guides)
Bye, Spooky

The hardest part is as Alysia has said, learning to not force our own will onto the guides. I myself have spent countless hours pleading with my guides show me show me along with screaming that they are useless and what help are they anyway.But they never left me, they where always there, just as your guides and higher self are always there for you.

Timing is everything in this game, they wont interfere with your lessons, they will of-cause alway help you, even if you cant see or feel there presence. This world we are working through has so many ups and downs all planed by us I may add,some of the planning is so painful you would think theres know way I planned that, but you did!

I remember when I was awoken, to the lies I had planned to believe, I walked around for days saying what was I thinking, what was I thinking. But here I am I made it through all that pain ,and from that lesson I was rewarded. The rewards are so many, and yours will be as-well.

love to you

Thanks to all of you for your replys, it was so nice of you to explain in different ways!

:) :) :)

LightR_on,

Thanks. I needed to hear that.

Bob