OK, tell me...

I have, apparently, a recently passed over woman who likes my energy and says she will stay with me, even if I were to move....OK....

One of my guides is a former spouse...OK....

Apparently, there are several nonphysicals in my house who are drawn to my energy, some of them were female...OK....

So why do the dead ones like me and stay but the live ones leave? I mean, these dead ones are apparently with me for life, I'm de facto married to them now (?), so obviously it ain't me! I don't mind having a few extra wives, but... :-) And how do I explain this to a jealous live one?

What the HELL is wrong with women? They have to be DEAD to appreciate a guy they should?

I thought I knew just about every misunderstanding a man can have about women but this takes the cake!

I don't mind having the dead ones as companions. I rather like it, except they don't keep my bed warm. It's like: "Well, dear, we can talk, you can look - but you can't touch." What kind of metaphysical tease is this??

And it's not lilke I can hide anything from them, I mean I can't hide ANYTHING. They like to stand at the foot of my bed, one hangs out in my BATHROOM because she likes small spaces. I mean, OK, no hiding anything from you guys.  So again, it ain't me. So what's up, ladies? If my energy is so damn good, then why don't the live ones sense it too?

Ahhhhh!

Rant, rant, rant.... :-)

Well Rob,

maybe your to attached to the physical and these souls are trying to show you something. the universe works in wondrous ways.

Its up-to us to work out the meaning.

love to you

You may be right, but I don't think I'm as attached to the physical as much as your average guy, who has no clue.

So Rob ,your not average!

To that I would agree.

But because your not, can you not see what these woman are trying to show you?

These are the gifts from the astral, use then !

Love to you

They ought to know men are stupid about women, and you too, for that matter   :o

Maybe I should be a monk! Go to Mt Athos in Greece where women are even allowed to visit. Take my dead ones with me. And forget about the live ones. Like that's gonna happen.  ::)

I agree it's a gift(s). I'm afraid to ask them because I know I won't like the answer! I know the answer already, actually: work on your intuition and stay away from the live ones for a while. No distractions. The dead ones are there in the mean time.

But I don't want to hear that!

Love to you too,
Bob

There's just something about a ghost in the bathroom, ain't there?  Mine that came with the bathtub (old clawfoot tub out of an abandoned house) kinda gave me the willies when I had to pee...um, not a spectator sport...she was polite though, and if she was hanging around she didn't make herself obvious at that time.  After (I'm assigning motivation here, but it makes sense) she saw I was going to take good care of her "pet" tub, she pretty much disappeared.

How come these dead women aren't enjoying the Afterlife?  :-/

maybe they are enjoying the afterlife, maybe they just like hanging around Bob and Bob seems to say he likes them to be there. if he doesn't want them to hang, they'd probably go away as they would sense this is what he wanted. love, alysia

Here's the thing...

I wish I was enjoying the Afterlife. But saying that makes me sound suicidal even though I'm not.

Very confused...  :P

Magic, I think you're missing the point. the afterlife is the now life, and the now life is the afterlife, so don't wait to enjoy any kind of life...enjoy it now! :D

Roy_Roy:

Grow a beer belly, and maybe they'll go away. ;)

;D ;D ;D

Maybe they like Beer Bellys!

"I wish I was enjoying the Afterlife. But saying that makes me sound suicidal even though I'm not."

I wouldn't say that you are suicidal, I for example cannot wait for my ticket to be pulled, I am no longer afraid of death, I embrace it, love it.. and I enjoy every second of living physically on planet earth, doesn't make me suicidal..

"Magic, I think you're missing the point. the afterlife is the now life, and the now life is the afterlife, so don't wait to enjoy any kind of life...enjoy it now! Cheesy"

laffingrain thats why I love you, you have a way with your words... that couldn't of been better said..

Recoverer and goldyflocks,

Yeah, grow a beer belly, let my crack show above the back of my jeans, wear a dirty white tee-shirt, spit tobacco all over the place, and fart loudly.  Nope, won't work!

Goldyflocks,

If you decide to come to the Colonies to see me I'll grow one especially for you! No, actually, I'm in pretty good shape and I don't drink much beer because Yank beer is too watery.

I like your butterfly, hottie!

Bob

Rob_Roy wrote on Sep 30^th, 2005 at 11:51pm:

What the HELL is wrong with women?

I've been wondering the same thing for years now.

Hi Rob  If its just the dead women that want you ,and not the live ones ,you have to start asking yourself serious questions why. Perhaps the dead ones can see inside your soul and the live ones cant ,because you put barriers up or something. just my thoughts on the subject. Love and god bless you juditha

Rob_Roy wrote on Oct 1^st, 2005 at 2:04am:

Maybe I should be a monk! Go to Mt Athos in Greece where women are even allowed to visit. Take my dead ones with me. And forget about the live ones. Like that's gonna happen.  ::)

Great reference to Mt. Athos!  They don't even allow female ANIMALS on the island.  I always wondered how they regulate that with birds that fly around there. lol  

You might cause a historical event!  Bringing female spiritual presences onto the island! lol  

Well, I'm no longer being ignored by the live ones anymore, lol. I'm now having to push them away. Actually, my help guides keep me focused.

As for Mt Athos, they DO allow female CATS, because of rodents. I can understand why the holy and pios monks there wouldn't want to be tempted by a twenty-something with a tattoo on the small of her back and a triangle thong popping up when bending over, who do this on purpose because they know it works.  I'd say it would definately be a distraction. And you KNOW there are those who would distract those monks on purpose just to play games. Yes, men play games too, well, I don't.

Justin, I can't believe you ressurected this old thread. You must REALLY be bored!

Love,
Rob

So they DO allow female cats?  My folks had gone over there and my dad had been told that he could visit, but mom couldn't, and they had been pretty clear that no female animals were allowed either.  I always wondered why, and yes, I do agree with you about the fact that there would be some individuals who would go with the idea of tempting them.  It happens to clergy in most all faiths.

Ok, cool.