I am so so sad.
My brother,Brian,hung himself 6 months ago.
He was very depressed.He was the victim of childhood sexual abuse for 6 years.He died aged 38.He /lost his wife/contact with his daughters/job
and his close friend died 6 weeks before Brian did.My little brother was in so much pain.
I am tormented that after all of his suffering in this world,he may still be in so much pain.Please can you tell me where he may be.
I just want him to know how much I love him.Can he know this?
Christine

yes Poppy he can know of your love. he is not far away as in distance because space and distance is different on the other side. when u think of him, if you think of what you are feeling for him (love) then that is what helps him to move on and be happy. in this way he can pick up the thoughts of his closest kin.

also we have here on this site under resources/free articles, how to talk to those passed on. love, alysia

wrote on Jun 20^th, 2005 at 12:28pm:

I am so so sad. My brother,Brian,hung himself 6 months ago. He was very depressed.He was the victim of childhood sexual abuse for 6 years.He died aged 38.He /lost his wife/contact with his daughters/job and his close friend died 6 weeks before Brian did.My little brother was in so much pain. I am tormented that after all of his suffering in this world,he may still be in so much pain.Please can you tell me where he may be. I just want him to know how much I love him.Can he know this? Christine

Hello Christine;
It's been over a month since you posted this tread, have you had any contact with your brother, any dreams of him/sensations that he was around etc..would love to hear if anything happening..:)
With love Romain

Hi Christine-
I deeply regret your loss, and especially that it was caused by such a senseless problem. Unfortunatelt 1 in 6 men and 1 in 4 women have the same burden of molest to bear.

Your brother unquestionably is aware of your love and your concern, and is in a place in which he is rceiving the care he needs to heal his past, and the manner in which he chose to end it.

If you wish to communicate with him directly, most past life therapists can assist you immediately (try www.iarrt.org). Or, if you want a more personal approach, and one in which you can become part of the caregivers for similar unhappy souls, you might read through Bruce's writings, and study his HowTo (bok 5). This site has an amazing number of talented people whose primary pastime is rescuing others.

I imagine that your brother would probably like you to benefit and grow from his experiences, rather than the be so saddened that your life too comes to a stop in grief. As a mental health worker, my suggestion would be to donate or otherwise get involved with an organization that helps prevent and heal victims of abuse, and that you do so as a demonstration of love for your brother. There is no doubt that he will be able to share the experience with you.

dave